When a person is ready to forgive they feel an incredible amount of love, happiness, freedom, joy. I believe that we all make contracts before we incarnate in this life. If your lesson was to learn forgiveness, then you have made a contract with somebody to give you a reason to forgive. Imagine what amount of love that soul must have had if they accepted to harm you in order to teach you forgiveness? Or you can just believe that somebody is evil, everybody wants to hurt you; you don’t deserve to be loved… What do you choose to believe in? If your choice is to believe that we are all here to learn something and gain experience then bare with me. If not, I don’t think you will like what I have to say, but try to read the story and you might change the way you were thinking.
In my previous blog, I wrote about a client who was abused since her early childhood. It was really hard for her to forgive, but the anger that she was holding onto was creating her more troubles day after day. She started to feel pain in her stomach and she got scared that she will get really sick. When she came to me, I was told that she did some healings before but she still didn’t learn the lesson. She was holding onto abuse and it was torturing her day after day. It didn’t mean that if she forgave that it will erase what happened to her, but the forgiveness would save her and set her free. Also, forgiveness would protect her from a potential psychic attack. When we carry anger, we create doors in our energy field and bad energy is more likely to come inside.
Like I previously said, my client had a lot to forgive. And I could just try to imagine how much she was hurt during her lifetime. When she was invited on the 7th plane to forgive her abusers and the abusers that hurt women in her family, she had the opportunity to tell them everything they did to her. What happened is that they felt sorry for what they did to her, they had remorse for their acts. There was one specific soul who was really thrilled for her forgiveness. She wanted to know who the person was but it was said that it is not important. What was of great importance is that their role was recognized and they were all free. If it happened that they just left without feeling sorry for what they have done to her, that would mean that they didn’t learn the lesson but by forgiving them she was protecting herself. Or, it could have happened that they would just stand in front of her, without feeling any remorse and that would mean that she hasn’t learned the lesson. In this case, we would do more belief work on her.
Now, I would like to share a story with you from a book by Neal Donald Walsch, The Little Soul And The Sun. This is a story about a little boy soul who wants to know who he is. When a God responded that he is love, he wanted to know what it means to forgive.
“That’s what I want to be. I want to be forgiving. I want to experience myself as that.”
But just then a Friendly Soul stepped forward from the crowd.
“Not to worry, Little Soul,” the Friendly Soul said, “I will help you.”
“You will?” the Little Soul brightened. “But what can you do?”
“Why, I can give you someone to forgive!”
“You can?”
“Certainly!” chirped the Friendly Soul. “I can come into your next lifetime and do something for you to forgive.”
“But why? Why would you do that?” the Little Soul asked.
“You, who are a Being of such utter perfection! You, who vibrate with such a speed that it creates a Light so bright that I can hardly gaze upon you! What could cause you to want to slow down your vibration to such a speed that your bright Light would become dark and dense? What could cause you ~ who are so light that you dance upon the stars and move through the Kingdom with the speed of your thought–to come into my life and make yourself so heavy that you could do this bad thing?”
“Simple,” the Friendly Soul said. “I would do it because I love you.”
The Little Soul seemed surprised at the answer.
“Don’t be so amazed,” said the Friendly Soul, “you have done the same thing for me. Don’t you remember? Oh, we have danced together, you and I, many times. Through the eons and across all the ages have we danced. Across all time and in many places have we played together. You just don’t remember.”
“I will have to slow down my vibration and become very heavy to do this not-so-nice thing. I will have to pretend to be something very unlike myself. And so, I have but one favor to ask of you in return.”
“Oh, anything, anything!” cried the Little Soul, and began to dance and sing, “I get to be forgiving, I get to be forgiving!”
Then the Little Soul saw that the Friendly Soul was remaining very quiet.
“What is it?” the Little Soul asked. “What can I do for you? You are such an angel to be willing to do this for me!”
“Of course this Friendly Soul is an angel!” God interrupted. “Everyone is! Always remember: I have sent you nothing but angels.”
And so the Little Soul wanted more than ever to grant the Friendly Soul’s request. “What can I do for you?” the Little Soul asked again.
“In the moment that I strike you and smite you,” the Friendly Soul replied, “in the moment that I do the worst to you that you could possibly imagine ~ in that very moment…”
“Yes?” the Little Soul interrupted, “yes…?” “Remember Who I Really Am.”
“Oh, I will!” cried the Little Soul, “I promise! I will always remember you as I see you right here, right now!”
“Good,” said the Friendly Soul, “because, you see, I will have been pretending so hard, I will have forgotten myself. And if you do not remember me as I really am, I may not be able to remember for a very long time. And if I forget Who I Am, you may even forget Who You Are, and we will both be lost. Then we will need another soul to come along and remind us both of Who We Are.”
“No, we won’t!” the Little Soul promised again. “I will remember you! And I will thank you for bringing me this gift ~ the chance to experience myself as Who I Am.”
Did you change your mind yet?
“When you fully overcome all the trauma and abuse and can look upon all those involved from a place of love, with a heart full of love for each one of them, then you are in a very powerful position to help all those trapped and persecuted in similar cycles so prevalent here on earth.”